Greetings! Qrush Velvet will be under construction for the next couple of weeks. I know my posts haven't been consistent and it is because I am making changes that will appeal to the masses. Thank you for your understanding and patience during this time. Change is good and I pray for your continued support!!
2012-12-21
2012-11-19
SHOW ME THE GROWTH ~ HAIR GRWOTH CHALLENGE 2012
Qrush Velvet, Chicly Natural, The Coiffed Cafe, Curly Gurl Hair Magazine, & The Kink:101 Presents:
The challenge dates: February 3, 2013 through February 2, 2014
TO OFFICIAL ENTER THE CHALLENGE
Fill out Entry form HERE
A chance to win one of the quarterly gift baskets and prizes from listed sponsors and others to TBA!!
JOIN THE MOVEMENT....WHERE HEALTHY HAIR BEGINS!!
2012-11-07
OKLAHOMA NATURALS 2ND ANNUAL NATURAL HAIR & HEALTH EXPERIENCE DAY 1 -CURLICIOUS NATURAL HAIR AFFAIR
A couple of weeks ago Resilient Soul had their 2nd Annual Natural Hair & Health Experience in Oklahoma City, Ok. This year it was a 3 day weekend that included, a meet and greet, expo, and hair show. The lovely ladies of Resilient Soul Terrainia & Shekeeta was kind enough to invite little me as a guest blogger to document the festivities. The first night started with a meet n greet called the Curlicious Natural Hair Affair held at the City Arts Center in Oklahoma City, Ok. I could barely contain my excitement to meet and mingle with some of well known natural hair bloggers and Youtubers I followed for years.
2012-11-05
HOW TO RECOVER FROM A PROTEIN OVERLOAD DISASTER!!
Protein overload is something your hair can and will experience if you are not careful!! Protein is a necessary component for healthy hair. But how much or how little is the question. It's really a matter of balance and products that contain protein can be very useful in adding strength to damaged or over processed hair. About a month ago I feel asleep in my favorite deep conditioner that has protein as the main ingredient and the next day my hair was a tangled knotty birds nest. My answer for anyone dealing with thinness, breakage, or shedding is a protein treatment. But I sometimes forget to stress the importance of following protein treatments with moisturizing products to create a balance within your hair. Protein + Moisture = Healthy Hair!! Anyone who has dealt with this issue knows how your hair will make you feel like you are not in control. But there is a small window of opportunity to become Commander and Chief of your tresses again and it starts with:First identify the signs of protein overload:
1. Lack luster hair (no shine)
2. Excessive dryness
3. Stiff, crunchy, brittle hair (hard as a rock)
4. Breaks easily (start to see an excess amount of little pieces of hair)
5. Difficult detangling process
6. Hair feels and looks dry as a bone
7. Wiry
In other words your hair is a flat out unmanageable mess.
Ingredients to avoid during the recovery process:
1. Soy
2. Wheat
3. Panthenol
4. Collagen
5. Silk Amino Acids
6. Keratin
7. Hydrolyzed protein
8. All ayurvedic products
VERY IMPORTANT, After you have concluded you have protein overload, this will be a time if you have not already to start reading every ingredient on the hair products you currently use. This will eliminate adding any more protein to your hair.
Recovery process
Due to the drying nature of protein (nothing is perfect), it is imperative that you immediately restore Moisture,Moisture, Moisture, Moisture, Moisture, and more Moisture into your hair. My suggestion is to AVOID shampoos (natural and non-natural), coconut oil (a form of protein), gels, and curling enhancers during this recovery time. And only use protein every other week and heavy protein every 6 to 8 weeks.
Step 1
Condition wash every day with a moisturizing conditioner until your hair feels and looks right IE: lustrous, moisturized, and soft to the touch.
Step 2
If you are like me and have to cleanse your scalp weekly, opt for a shampoo alternative like apple cider vinegar. You can refer to the CLEANSE portion of my Updated Fall/Winter Hair Regimen where I use a ACV mixture to cleanse my hair.
FYI, the CLEANSE portion of my Updated Fall/Winter Hair Regimen was a result of trying to create a moisture and balance back into my hair after a protein catastrophe. Shampoo, even when diluted was NOT helping my situation. My hair constantly stayed dry and until I completely eliminated shampoo. And because I loved the regimen so much I decided to stick with it.
Step 3
Deep condition weekly with a moisturizing conditioner. You can identify a moisturizing conditioner because it will not contain any of the ingredients listed in the "Ingredients to Avoid". Adding real honey (a natural humectant) and olive oil to your conditioner is another way to restore moisture.
Step 4
Spritz your hair with filtered H20. The reason I suggest filtered water because a lot of areas have hard water and when you are trying to create a moisture balance, hard water is counter productive.
Step 5
Seal in moisture (water) with only butters and oils. Except coconut oil which is form of protein.
Step 6
If possible try protective styling. Protein overloaded hair will benefit from not being exposed to the elements. Hair that is tucked away will stay moisturized through out the day.
Suggested conditioners: Suave Naturals Almond & Shea Butter, Tresemme' Luxurious Moisture, and Organic Root Stimulator Olive Oil Replenishing,
Suggested butters: Qhemet Biologics Alma & Olive heavy cream, Shea butter, and Entwine Exotique Butter Creme Hydrator.
Suggested oils: Olive, castor, almond, jojoba, or avocado oil.
Disclaimer: These are just a few of the products that I have tried and worked for me.
For any Naturals currently experiencing protein overloaded hair have NO FEAR, your hair can and will return to its natural state with consistency and the tips suggested. Like me, you might to revamp your entire hair regimen temporally until your hair is back on track.
Be Epic!!!
2012-10-31
QRUSH VELVET SWOON ALERT - ANNA DELLO RUSSO COLLECTION FOR H&M
H&M struck gold literally with the new Anna Dello Russo collection for H&M. But first who is Anna Dello Russo? Before assuming her current postion of Fashion Director and Editor-at-large for Vogue Nippon, Dello spent 18 yrs at Conde' Nast Italia, as fashion editor at Vogue Italia and as editor of L'Uomo Vogue for 2000-2006. This "fashion maniac" first snatched my attention on the popular street blog All The Pretty Birds. The self-described "passionate fashionista" has been describe by Helmut Newtonn as a "fashion maniac". Now the iconic editor fashionista has blessed us with a affordable version of traffic stopping opopulant pieces for the Swedish retailor H&M!!
2012-10-24
2012-10-23
RAW ARTIST EVENT
Few months ago I attended a Raw Artist event at Club 115 in downtown Oklahoma city. As you know from past posts I love and appreciate the arts so when ever I have an opportunity to attend and there to support.
RAW MISSION STATMENT
RAW events are multi-faceted artistic showcases. Each event features a film screening, musical performance, fashion show, art gallery, performance art and a featured hairstylist and makeup artist. These artists are all local, hand-picked talent who have been chosen to feature at RAW.
HERE ARE A FEW OF THE PICS I SNAPPED!!
2012-10-18
FLAVOR IN YOUR EAR - GINETTE CLAUDETTE
A 21-year-old Ginette Claudette relys on fond memories like singing with her older sister in the hospital before she passed away or performing at the Apollo Theater, fulfilling the dream of her father, who is also gone, help to keep her balanced. “Music is my outlet,” she says. “It’s what’s keeps me sane.”
2012-10-16
2012-10-15
UPDATED FALL-WINTER HAIR REGIMEN
For the fall and winter I am going to try something new and not use any shampoo! I will still cleanse my scalp and hair but I am going to incorporate apple cider vinegar as my weekly cleanser. There are numerous benefits of this dirt cheap wonder juice like, it can be used as a hair rinse (my weekly rinse) to relieve your scalp of dandruff, or used as a hair lost treatment. When taken internally can be a replacement for toxic heartburn medications, helps clear up skin conditions and blemishes giving a smoother texture and complexion, and may help improve bowel irregularity, thereby removing toxins from the body at a faster rate. Apple cider vinegar (ACV) has long been used as a natural hair care product to promote healthy hair in both men and woman. Its acidity is close to that of natural hair, it's a good conditioner and cleaning agent and it's also an effective germ killer. AVC will also make your hair smoother and more manageable. Don't worry about the slight vinegar smell you will notice after rinsing, it will disappear completely as your hair dries.
This is the brand of ACV I prefer
Step 1 - Pre Detangle & Deep Condition
Divide my hair into to 4 sections, apply an oil, olive oil/ coconut oil. Then coat my hair with a conditioner Dabur Vatika Hair Mask (For Dry, Dull & Lifeless Hair) / Organic root stimulator replenishing conditioner and finger detangle.
Leave conditioner on for 30 mins to an hr.
Step 2 - Cleanse
After I wash out the pre poo of oil and conditioner, I will clean my hair and scalp with my ACV mixture consisting of:
1/4 cup of apple cider vinegar
4 table spoons of honey
4 drops of rosemary essential oil
4 drops of tea tree oil
All combined into a applicator bottle similar to this:
Step 3- Moisturize and Seal
While my hair is still moist but not soaking wet I will divide into 4 sections, apply Giovanni direct weightless moisture leave in. Then take a half dollar size amount of Qhemet Biologics Amla and Olive heavy cream to each section and seal with Jamaican black castor oil.
Step 4 - Massage scalp and twist
I will create a rubbing motion with the pads of my fingers firmly against my head in small circles for 2 minutes. Same technique use in5 effective washing tips. Then I will make 8 twists and protect my entire head with a satin cap or silk scarf.
Benefits of scalp massages: Your scalp is healthiest when it's clean. But it may also need a little stimulation to keep any potential problems away. A scalp massage can also increase blood flow which stimulates hair follicles in the scalp promoting hair growth.
Before suggesting anything, I always do a trial run on my self first. I have used this regimen for month and have not experienced any issues. Just wanted to try a different approach to cleaning my tresses and have more control of the the products used on my hair.
Be Epic!
2012-10-12
LIFE & TIMES OF A FUNKAHOLIC - HARD KNOCK LIFE NYC (PART 1)
This past weekend, me and two of my besties Finichia of Fancy Curves and Sheila decided to rejuvenate and refresh our spirits by taking a little vacay to NYC. My friend Sheila bought 2 tickets to the Jay-Z concert that was going to be held at the new Barclay Stadium in Brooklyn (pics in Part 2) and was nice enough to offer me one. To say I was not mentally ready for the amount of walking the city requires is an understatement. At one point in the trip my body collapsed reaching for my suit case, which provided side busting giggles. But overall the trip exceeded all our expectations and will be required yearly.
2012-09-24
Oklahoma Naturals and Surrounding Areas Mark Your Calenders!!
2nd Annual Oklahoma Naturals Hair & Health Experience
Presented by
******************Resilient Soul****************
SUN OCT 28TH - beautiful natural minds collide to bring you 'Natural Hair as Art'
Check out there Oklahoma Naturals 2012 video!
Sure to be a wonderful weekend. Hope to see you there,
Be Epic!!!
2012-09-21
5 EFFECTIVE WASHING TIPS
2012-09-20
FLAVOR IN YOUR EAR ~ NEW ARTIST DALEY
Daley is a British singer and songwriter from Manchester, signed to Universal Republic Records. His sound combines soulful vocals and songwriting with hip hop and experimental production and has previously been described as 'Future Throwback Soul'. The 22 year old singer first garnered buzz for his sensual slow jam “Alone Together” featuring Marsha Ambrosius, featured on his 2011 EP, Those Who Wait. The first time I heard "Alone Together" the music was so good it gave me goose bumps. He reminds of an early Maxwell and I excitedly await for future releases.
2012-09-17
QRUSH VELVET "FUNKAHOLIC STYLE" SPOTLIGHT
QRUSH HAIR OF THE DAY - BANTU KNOT
One of the staple hair styles in the natural community is Bantu knots. Protective styling cause me to totally forget how much I love this easy no fuss curly look. I need to revisit this style more often because the results never disappoint. Numerous reasons why I like this heat free do, it is quick, easy, damage free, and your hair will triple in size over time. No two Bantu styles will every look the same! The size of your knots will determine the final results your hair definition. I prefer medium size knots because I want my finished look to be a "curly wavish" type of style. This is perfect for people who are natural, chemically treated, and transitioners wanting to blend the 2 textures.
Check out this video from Naptural85 on how to achieve the perfect Bantu Knot:
2012-09-05
2012-08-28
QRUSH VELVET SWOON ALERT - MELODY EHSANI EARRINGS
A year ago I had my first introduction to this eclectic paradox of customed made jewelry that instantly intrigued my fascination with all things apparel. With a variety of color hues and shapes, it is understandable why this hip hop inspired line is the favorite among notable celebs like Eryah Badu and Solange Knowles. One aspect I love about her jewelry, there is no need to add a lot of bells and whistles just one statement piece and my outfit is complete. Melody Ehsani stated in a interview, "I design to upset the equilibrium. I design to inspire. I design to serve. I design because I was created to do so. A portion from each pair of Ehsani shoes purchased will go towards the advancement and education of women in our society." Reason enough for me to support, happy shopping!!
OOTD ~ JUST BLAZE
The inviting air signals the beginning of my favorite time of the year. With fall and winter approaching, you can count on me to find an excuse to update my wardrobe a bit. All the classic fall/winter colors such as brown, black, taupe, winter white,and many shades of gray, as well as dark rich blues seem to be prevalent during this time. But I love to layer and to break up warm hues by adding a unexpected pop of color or two or three. Cruising online this blazer caught my attention and immediately my mind was flooded with the many ways I could incorporate this treasure. Blazers are a must, from baggy masculine, cropped, tuxedo, or a traditional style like the one featured in this post. I will pair it with everything from work trousers, jeans, shorts, dresses, and play suits. A blazers adds structure to your figure: gives curvy girls more angular lines, creates waistlines for boyish figure types and smooths out lumps and bumps for all shapes.
This is my style mantra "Be Free". Being "YOU" is an obtainable gift we can all embody that will result in freedom!!
2012-07-27
LIFE & TIMES OF A FUNKAHOLIC - "INSTA G" EDITION
Almost 2 week since I last blogged....SHAME ON ME! The excuse, my computer was a little sick and started experiencing technical difficulties. Now that it is back to business as usual, I have a plethora of posts stock piled waiting for their final touches. The time away allowed me to redirect my focus and branch out on other e-outlets like Instagram and Pinterest. I am having so much fun on instagram I decided to make a post about it. Majority of the pics are from Instagram and some are the rejected instagram pics that wouldn't load, smh. Looking forward to connecting with YOU on Instagram, Pinterest, Twitter, Facebook @QrushVelvet!
@QRUSH VELVET
2012-07-16
UPDATED SUMMER '12 HAIR REGIMEN & SHEA MOISTURE DEEP TREAT REVIEW
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This summer I am trying something new, deep conditioning before I shampoo. My weekly wash routine until recently was to prepoo with oils, apply a protein conditioner (Mane n Tail), shampoo (Dr. Bonners), deep condition, and rinse with ACV (apple cider vinegar) mixture seen here as a final rinse. For years I would wash my hair in the sink and over time my hair gain length and washing my hair in the shower was the only option to keep my hair free from tangles. The main reason for the slight change, I am tired of getting in the shower to shampoo, getting out to deep condition, then getting back in the shower to rinse out conditioner...I am so "Hair Lazy" right now. But with this new routine I am mindful not to create alot of build up through out the week so when I deep condition the product will have a fighting chance to penetrate the hair shaft before I shampoo.
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2012-07-10
OOTD ~ NATURAL 360
NATURAL HAIR + NATURAL EARTH TONES + NATURAL ELEMENT (HEAT)
Earth tones
is a color scheme that instantly draws me in. With a variety of color palettes in browns, tans, greys, greens, and even some reds, there are no limitations with
this many options to choose from. I have always loved the colors of the earth
because they complement every skin tone and body shape. And I said to myself
why not add a little splash of neon too.
Also recently I have missed my beloved and sometimes forgotten FRO. So for the last 2 weeks I have worn my hair
out and while I love it, this time of year having my hair down is giving my hot
flashes. Back to protective styling until
the weather lightens up.
Labels:
ALDO,
ASOS,
FOREVER 21,
MARSHALLS,
OLD NAVY,
RACHEL ROY
2012-07-03
SPECIAL EDITION: QRUSH HAIR OF THE WEEK- UP DO
This is a special edition of "Qrush Hair of the
Day" and deserves to be renamed "Qrush Hair of the Week". Qrush
Hair of the Week is provided by Desiree Irving, a premier hair stylist in
Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. She has made a name for herself by providing quality
work in a professional manner. I have personally seen her exquisite work and
cannot believe I am just now showcasing it. She was kind enough to provide us
with not one but two different up dos. Both styles are perfect for the person
who is transitioning, getting married, going to an upcoming event, or wanting a
protective style!!!
GODDESS BRAIDS
The goddess braid is a sophisticated hairstyle made from oversized cornrows. Begin by parting the client's hair in distinct sections that will determine the flow, style and direction that the braids will be styled in. Again, angled parts from the base help to form the braids. The front is met with the back braids and finished with coils to frame the face.
As you can see, she looks just like a goddess! This is a very low maintenance style. All you need to do is tie your hair up at night with a scarf and take it off in the morning and go!
FLAT TWISTS/COILS COMBO
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Part the hair from the hairline and go back to the nape of the neck. You can make the size of the part as narrow or wide as you desire. Use hair clips to keep the remaining hair out of the way. Divide the hair into two small sections at the hairline. Twist each section around each other, picking up small pieces of additional hairs from the scalp while twisting. The back consists of angled parts with flat twist. The twist meet in the front and help to form off centered coils.
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If you are in the Oklahoma City area stop by and schedule an
appointment w/Desiree @ the Hair Cafe, you will not be disappointed!
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CONTACT INFO:
Desiree Irving
The Hair Cafe
1120 N Walker Ave
Oklahoma city, OK
405-305-7421
email: dsirving@live.com
Twitter: whatisculture
Instagram: tressreliever

Would love to feature "YOU" women or men on Qrush Velvet regarding
"Qrush hair of the day". If interested please email
me: qrushvelvet@gmail.com
Preserve You, Peace & Blessings!!
2012-07-02
QRUSH VELVET SWOON ALERT- ACCESSORIES
*BROOCHES
Brooches are something I feel adds a sophiscated flavor to any ensemble. Brooches are now taking the place of bowties to add a femine touch. My Head wrap flow post also show another option of how to remix your brooches.
2012-06-29
CHANGES
There are a couple of things I am considering changing regarding QV.
1. Sharing more frequently
My vision when I first started blogging was to document my OOTD (outfits of the day) and occasionally offer helpful natural hair care tips. Over time my baby has grown into a place providing recipes, hair, and personal style posts. Soon I will make certain investments towards Qrush Velvet because I want you the reader (it is all about you) to see visually appealing images along with creative content without compromising the original vision of the blog. Hopefully you will join me on this journey of evolution as we look forward to what is ahead!
2. Youtube
One way I feel I can offer a contribution in the natural hair community is by providing more in-depth tutorials of various hair styles I have created over the years. I realize you can only understand so much from step by step instructions and seeing a visual demonstration would be more beneficial. Excited and looking forward to letting you into my hair "bag of tricks" not yet revealed on QV, reason enough to launch a YouTube page.
Preserve You, Peace & Blessings!!
1. Sharing more frequently
My vision when I first started blogging was to document my OOTD (outfits of the day) and occasionally offer helpful natural hair care tips. Over time my baby has grown into a place providing recipes, hair, and personal style posts. Soon I will make certain investments towards Qrush Velvet because I want you the reader (it is all about you) to see visually appealing images along with creative content without compromising the original vision of the blog. Hopefully you will join me on this journey of evolution as we look forward to what is ahead!
2. Youtube
One way I feel I can offer a contribution in the natural hair community is by providing more in-depth tutorials of various hair styles I have created over the years. I realize you can only understand so much from step by step instructions and seeing a visual demonstration would be more beneficial. Excited and looking forward to letting you into my hair "bag of tricks" not yet revealed on QV, reason enough to launch a YouTube page.
Another way for us to connect, I am NOW on Instagram @ qrushvelvet!!!
Preserve You, Peace & Blessings!!
2012-06-27
LIFE & TIMES OF A FUNKAHOLIC
This past weekend I had the pleasure to attend a Jewerly Trunk Show by Koko Dolls at one of my favorite places Urban Roots. The event provided a fashion show, live hair demos, mimi mac seminar, give a ways, vendors and I was gifted with a pair of original KoKo Dolls earrings too. An overall successful event!!! Here are just a few of the pics I took over the weekend and more pics of the trunk show are HERE!
2012-06-25
QRUSH HAIR OF THE DAY - FLEXI ROD SET
2012-06-22
THE BEST BLACK BEAN BURGER
My Friday night ritual would consist
of relaxing and indulging in a cheat meal which could be chicken, pull pork, or
brisket sandwich with french fries add extra jalapenos please!! So when I
stopped eating meat I was little worried, how I would cope, lol ! But then
about a month ago I went to a local event called Mid Town Soul located at
McNellie's. As usual I was hungry, looking through the menu I was pleasantly
surprise to find a vegetarian option, black bean burger with sweet potato
fries....mmmm yummy! The entire meal far exceeded my expectations and had no
choice but to recreate this meal....Team Preserve You can't stop, won't stop!!
2012-06-18
HEALTHY SCALP SERIES PART 1 - ESSENTIAL OILS CAN OPTIMIZE YOUR HAIR GROWTH!!!
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****Essential oils are an astringent, antibacterial and contain anti fungal properties too!! When applied to the scalp, it can help your hair remain clean and fresh between shampoos. Another important tip essential oils also promotes contraction hair follicles, thereby preventing hair shedding with regular use.
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